Why choose us

Our Commitment to Excellence

With over 13 years of experience as a leading au pair agency in China, we possess extensive resources in host family matching and deep expertise in handling visa processes, mediation in host family conflicts, and resolving various challenges.

❶ We Honor Our Promises

Every benefit committed to our au pairs is ​100% guaranteed and fulfilled. We stand firmly by our agreements.

❷ We Maintain Neutrality

When addressing issues between au pairs and host families, we strive to remain ​impartial and fair, without bias towards either party.

❸ We Provide End-to-End Support

Our comprehensive service covers the entire journey: from ​careful matching​ and ​detailed visa application guidance​ to providing full support for au pairs who encounter difficulties after arrival in China and require ​re-matching with a new host family.

❹ We Offer Premium Services

Beyond the au pair program, we provide value-added services, including ​guidance on selecting and applying to universities in China​ and ​recommendations for foreign language teaching positions.

❺ We Uphold Professional Standards

We are a proud member of the ​International Au Pair Association (IAPA)​​ and the ​China Au Pair Association (CAPA)​, adhering to the highest industry standards.

❻ Our Community Shares Their Experiences

Hear directly from our global community of au pairs! Visit our ​YouTube channel​ to watch testimonials and see their experiences in their own words.

https://youtube.com/@tofriend.aupair

Mission & Values

Our Mission

Our mission is to serve as a cultural bridge connecting Chinese families with young people from around the globe. We are dedicated to providing ​safe, reliable, and fully-supported​ au pair programs in China. Through profound cultural immersion, we enable au pairs to gain meaningful language learning and family life experiences in China, while providing host families with authentic foreign language environments and international perspectives. We firmly believe that genuine cultural interaction fosters global competence in youth and opens a window to the world for children.

Our Core Values

  1. Integrity & Reliability​We consider our reputation to be our most valuable asset. We are committed to ​fulfilling 100%​​ of the benefits promised to both our au pairs and host families. Throughout our service, we maintain ​transparency, neutrality, and fairness​ in handling any situation, without bias towards any party, to build and sustain long-term trust.
  2. End-to-End Support & Partnership​We view au pairs and host families as long-term partners. We provide comprehensive support throughout the entire journey—from ​matching and visa assistance to training, arrival orientation, and even mediation and rematching​ if needed during the stay in China. Our commitment extends beyond the program with value-added services for further studies or career development, truly acting as a partner in each participant’s growth.
  3. Service Excellence & Professionalism​We pursue excellence in every detail of our service. Whether it’s providing au pairs with detailed ​pre-departure guidance and visa interview training​ or conducting rigorous background checks for host families, we hold ourselves to the highest professional standards to ensure a ​high-quality and stable​ service experience.
  4. Cultural Respect & Open-mindedness​We respect the cultural background and personal habits of every au pair and encourage ​open and inclusive​ cultural exchange. Our programs are designed to promote ​deep understanding and friendship​ among people from different cultural backgrounds, working together to build a harmonious international community.